A Life of Service

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  1. Brian Kirkendall says:

    I am struggling with the passing of Tyler. I did not know him well, but I knew his kind. When you serve as an AST Instructor, you become intimately familiar with the type of men willing to put themselves in harm’s way to save the life of another. When you see that kind of selflessness displayed so clearly, it endears them to you.

    In the Rescue Swimmer community, we have suffered the loss of other ASTs before. But Tyler is the first to perish alone in the act of performing a rescue. I think it is hitting the RS community especially hard because he is the first, and because we all see ourselves in Tyler. We were all once the new guy going down on the hook. More specifically, I think we are hurting because, in some way, we all wish it had been one of us instead of him.

    Today I am going to watch his ceremony, and in a shock to no one, I am going to cry, because I am a crier. Then I am going to apply the same tactic my daughter uses when she gets hit by a pitch: she gives herself a five-count, then gets back in the box. After the ceremony, I am going to give myself a five-count and then do my best to honor Tyler by being the best version of myself I can be today. I think that is all any of us can do.

    Most Respectfully,
    BK RS#643

    • Adam Young says:

      Thank you 643. I’ve been counting to five a lot since your comment and getting back into the box to take my swings.